All of our event topic this week is most beneficial Sex very we’re speaing frankly about⦠ideal gender we have had! We’re joined by Autostraddle creator, poet, and reporter Dani Janae even as we go into some passionate anecdotes with an in-depth conversation regarding what helps make good intercourse good. Therefore we spend a lot of time on my intimate hang ups that I could or might not have actually completed most focus on come early july!
Arrive when it comes to lesbian movie-themed online game, remain when it comes to coming.
PROGRAM RECORDS
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The 200 Most Useful Lesbian+ Videos number
that Christina pulled the game from.
+ For those who haven’t review Dani’s
Anatomy of a Mango
show you probably must.
+
This is actually the essay
I wrote concerning the individual I discuss regarding the episode. It’s just already been 24 months but much has changed!
+ summer time has passed and in addition we still stan Olivia Rodrigo. See the
“raw” songs video clip
.
Dani:
The pet as well as the puppy had been in the space there was actually cat-and-dog hair everywhere. And therefore, I found myself definitely having an allergic impulse while we were having sex. But the climax was actually like cook’s kiss. It absolutely was an ideal, best experience literally.
Christina:
We ponder whether or not it’s anything regarding hives that really included some
je ne sais quoi
compared to that orgasmic knowledge.
Theme song plays
Drew:
Thanks for visiting
Hold off, So Is This a Date?
Christina:
Hold off, So Is This a Date?
is an Autostraddle podcast about, you guessed it, internet dating.
Drew:
Yay! I Enjoy dating. I’m Drew Gregory. I am a writer for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and merely common trans gay person around the net and⦠I found myself probably say globe, but it’s actually more like L. A. and ny.
Christina:
I adore this globe trotting gay individuality you’re dealing with right here in 2021.
Drew:
I’d like that. Yeah, it really is money for hard times.
Christina:
Yeah. I am your other variety, Christina Tucker, additionally an author for Autostraddle, deranged deafening gay on the net. Merely form of away here, authorship, being homosexual, carrying out what we can every minute to attempt to work through this existence that we’re living.
Drew:
You’re actually doing it. You are truly operating during that life.
Christina:
Honestly, it is all I’m able to perform. Which is all We have, it’s the only choice.
Drew:
I truly honor the attempt.
Christina:
The attempt to stay?
Drew:
Yeah.
Christina:
Yeah. Actually, actually brave of us to also try it. You aren’t completely wrong, you aren’t wrong. Do you really want to consider playing a little online game these days, Drew?
Drew:
Oh my personal God, I’m very thrilled. Can’t delay to see that which you have actually for my situation.
Christina:
I’m so happy you asserted that because you absolutely need state yes, for the reason that it’s part of this offer that people’ve produced here. So you might be familiar with the fact that on autostraddle.com, the internet site, we’ve got a list of 200 lesbian movies.
Drew:
I know of it. I might wrote it.
Christina:
You could have. What I do is actually pull a selection of 10 of these flicks. I’ve stored these to the most effective 50. I’m going to supply you with the storyline key words as determined by consumers on IMDb and you’re browsing must guess what flick it’s.
Drew:
Okay. I just want the listeners, wherever you are, to know that I am not saying planning pull-up record. I think you got that right, am We making the assumption that’s correct in the way I is respecting this game?
Christina:
I think that’s very respectful and I think that’s reasonable. I also type of rely on that the is certainly going end up being something which pops into their heads rather simple for you, I didn’t get also left.
Drew:
I have a bad memory, but yes, I’m going to make an effort to set folks up for reasonable expectations.
Christina:
Reasonable sufficient.
Drew:
So if I do really well, it’s love types of blow them out, while I really don’t prosper, are going to love, “Well, she talked about⦔ Anyways, carry on. Let us begin this.
Christina:
Let us begin. I shall start off with pretty basic people and I also will receive a lot more particular once we go, because a lot of them are practically what the film is during two terms. Therefore we’re going to attempt to start out with a wider knowledge here.
Drew:
I adore it.
Christina:
All of our basic film: medicines is the basic plot phrase. New york, New York City will be the second. Hate criminal activity is the next.
Drew:
Okay.
It Is All Over Me.
Christina:
Yes, it’s! See, I knew would certainly be able to do this.
Drew:
Great.
Christina:
We definitely knew you’d be able to do this.
Drew:
Additionally, i simply need to try to let men and women know that’s probably one of the most underrated lesbian films, and also you really need to see it. And Leisha Hailey where film has been my personal phone history for a few years. So only a great little reality indeed there for all of you.
Christina:
We love that. Fine, movie number two. “not known parent,” organ donor, cemetery, loss of child. Oh, she’s considering.
Drew:
Personally I think like I should definitely get this predicated on â delay, as yet not known father, death of child, organ donor. Oh,
Everything About My Personal Mommy.
Christina:
There it really is, see.
Drew:
Someone else of my personal favorites.
Christina:
It’s very exciting to see the things that people decide are a storyline keyword that they must extract because of these movies. I’m additionally maybe not reading any of the ones which are simply lesbian because that looks a lot like a gimme.
Drew:
Which is how I developed most of the number since if you look up lesbian films, what you found ended up being the old Autostraddle listing or some listings that are not really detailed, therefore I would really search through listings for the keywords and phrases of lesbian, lesbian making out, this stuff like women kissing, these specific things, to find movies in which they’re not regarded as a lesbian flick because they’re a little bit more interesting, or maybe just slightly much less immediate, and that is the way I found a few of the films which can be today throughout the list, thus back to where it started.
Christina:
Pay attention, IMDb keyword phrases coming in handy for all of us continuously. This, men and women moved crazy on this one. So just probably read some random terms to you. Hey, whistling, girl, black colored activities bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, on-the-job crash.
Drew:
At work accident? Oh, I Was Thinking I Got it right after which, wellâ
Christina:
Icy, in parentheses, the heat.
Drew:
Because in the beginning I was planning state
Foxfire,
then again the on the job accident changed me upwards. On-the-job crash.
Christina:
Would you like a few more?
Drew:
Yeah.
Christina:
Vehicle accidents through a fence.
Drew:
Can it be
Miseducation of Cameron Post?
Christina:
It’s not.
Drew:
Because on-the-job crash would-be an extremely dreadful way of describing that one regarding the gay since you’re wanting to convert to not gayness, tries to mutilate by themselves or does mutilate themselves. That’d be rather rigorous, but I didn’t know making use of IMDb thinkers. Okay, wait, this is tricking myself up.
Christina:
Do you want a few more from me personally?
Drew:
Truck through a fence. I’m sure it is something I am not⦠Yeah, carry on.
Christina:
Mention of the a college mortgage. These are generally thus nuts.
Drew:
Wait, maybe you have viewed this film?
Christina:
I have seen this motion picture.
Drew:
Could it possibly be untamed that I am not getting it?
Christina:
It’s just a little wild. I could give you annually, if you need annually.
Drew:
Any time you provide myself a-year, I’ll positively obtain it.
Christina:
Okay. 2016 is your 12 months.
Drew:
2016. Okay, let me know the goals.
Christina:
It will be the film,
Particular Women,
2016.
Drew:
Oh! Yeah.
Christina:
I really thought pickup truck accidents through a wall would produce, but In addition merely love these individuals just taking out nouns and just being like, “male.” Would be that what you believe?
Drew:
Yeah.
Christina:
Okay.
Drew:
Which is the motion picture. I have to observe that once again.
Christina:
It is. It really is outstanding film.
Drew:
Yeah, it’s an extremely fantastic motion picture.
Christina:
All right, the after that film. Kissing while having intercourse.
Drew:
The best form of both, perhaps, you might say.
Christina:
Attraction, dude ranch.
Drew:
Is-it
Desert Hearts?
Christina:
Yeah. Therefore I had been like, “Okay, you have got getting that afterwards one.” One other one I was gonna supply was â “nipples” had been the really conspicuously highlighted. And I also was like, “Sure, which element of that film.”
Drew:
God,
Desert Hearts.
You know how there is all those annoying individuals out there wanting to be Shane. Sorry, after all, if you are wanting to end up being Shane, we take you. But me, my personal irritating thing usually i am trying to be Cay. Cay in this film is a lot like that will be who In my opinion of as form of lesbian that I would like to be.
Christina:
Yeah, that is correct, can confirm. Fine, tend to be we prepared for the next one?
Drew:
Yeah.
Christina:
12 Monthsâ
Drew:
Wait, no, You will find yet another thing to state about
Desert Hearts.
Christina:
Sure.
Drew:
Following the finally time we re-watched it around summer, it type of sent me into a small spiral, and that I texted this earlier semi-closeted one who I’d type of begun tentatively planning to day or big date whatever, and who’d vanished for per month, and that I had abadndoned because I really don’t plead individuals to date myself. But I just was actually want, “Okay.” We saw
Desert Hearts
and I also had been love, “i assume perhaps often individuals have their particular internalized whatever.” And I texted this lady and I mentioned, “When we never ever satisfy, In my opinion you will regret it.” And in addition we performed meet, so’s what
Desert Hearts
can perform for your requirements.
Christina:
Wow, that is a very powerful recommendation.
Drew:
We probably shouldn’t have satisfied. We probably needs just allow it to end up being. But anyways, moving on, then film.
Christina:
Our very own subsequent film, metaphysics, scene during orifice loans â what meaning, its your decision â highschool football, Chicago, Illinois.
Drew:
Oh,
Princess Cyd.
Christina:
There you go.
Drew:
That is another great motion picture. I love that We keep becoming amazed through this record that I had a rather strong turn in standing. It’s not my personal positioning, but I did have a large proclaim within the position and I also think itâs great.
Christina:
Yeah. I simply want to be clear for you and all of our listeners â once more, We selected from top 50, thus these are really good types. For the good ones, these are generally great ones. I Am Aware Drew’s going to continually state this is exactly an excellent film after every one, butâ
Drew:
They are great films, all of you should see all of them.
Christina:
Fine. Short dress with heels.
Drew:
Think itâs great.
Christina:
Cock blocked, mini skirt with shoes.
Drew:
I am talking about, can it be
Blockers?
Christina:
It is not. That could be too easy, i believe, for
Blockers.
Drew:
I Really Don’t recall any miniskirts, butâ
Christina:
Feminine backside nudity.
Drew:
Okay. Hold off a moment. Okay, what the second. Okay, penis blocked, mini skirt, female back nudity.
Christina:
m4m hookups-hmm (affirmative). Split dance.
Drew:
Can it be
Bound?
Christina:
It isn’t.
Drew:
No, i’d love a break moving scene.
Christina:
I love a rest moving scene in
Certain.
Drew:
A rest dancing world.
Christina:
I’m going to give you: English woman overseas.
Drew:
English woman abroad? This might be a differnt one in which I feel I definitely need to have it.
Christina:
I’ll need certainly to offer you a fairly apparent any sooner or later, soshould assist.
Drew:
Okay, offer myself a clear one.
Christina:
Undercover agent.
Drew:
Can it be
D.E.B.S?
Christina:
It isn’t
D.E.B.S.
It really is right beside
D.E.B.S.,
style of movie smart. Listed here is another one, intrigue.
Drew:
Okay, wait, there’s not that numerous genre flicks.
Christina:
Discovern’t, that’s true.
Drew:
Undercover agent. Well, possibly they may be utilizing the phase, will it be
The Handmaiden?
Christina:
It is far from.
Drew:
Okay, I didn’t think so. Undercover broker.
Christina:
Do you want your year?
Drew:
I thought that⦠Positive.
Christina:
Your season is actually 2017.
Drew:
Undercover broker.
Christina:
I am therefore sorry. You’re feel so dumb once I state the name with this one.
Drew:
Oh no.
Christina:
I’m really sorry about this, but that’s style of exactly the method the cookie crumbles.
Drew:
Oh, it is
Carol.
Christina:
No, it isn’t really
Carol.
Drew:
No, it says 2015.
Christina:
Yes, I Understand that. It isn’t
Carol.
Drew:
But there’s an undercover â the guy, that’s where I found myself considering. Okay, what exactly is it? How does it make myself feel stupid?
Christina:
It Really Is
Atomic Blonde,
you dummy.
Drew:
Oh, that is inside leading 50?
Christina:
Really. I am aware.
Drew:
Oh, okay.
Christina:
Okay. We’ve got four a lot more, you ready?
Drew:
Really don’t think silly because that one I⦠What i’m saying is, i believe
Atomic Blonde
is fun, but I do not believe it is great. That would never be inside my private top 50. I really do want worldwide to understand that i understand that
Carol
was released in 2015. My personal head damage. I simply wish the whole world to understand that. Anyways, continue.
Christina:
The entire world now knows that, the record has become reflected. All righty: cafe, sense of odor, novelist, reference to a hamburger, mention of the Larry King, according to memoir, alcohol, theft, lady wears glasses, residing alone, destroying proof.
Drew:
The mention of Larry King is actuallyâ
Christina:
It is a truly unusual one.
Drew:
Mention of Larry King, damaging evidence.
Christina:
Cat.
Drew:
Oh, could it be
Could You Previously Forgive Me?
Christina:
Really.
Drew:
I had to develop to receive myself. I became actually in a slump here.
Christina:
You nailed it. In my opinion you have got truth be told there, I believe you positively had gotten there. All right, three more, the top three. I do believe these people shall be possible for you because i am aware you.
Drew:
Great, fine, reallyâ¦
Christina:
I am aware, but I’m claiming, are you ready?
Drew:
Okay, yeah.
Christina:
Psychological state, medication overdose.
Drew:
Could it possibly be
Foxfire?
Christina:
No. Photographer.
Drew:
Oh,
Greater.
Christina:
There we go. Tattoo, girl gang.
Drew:
Is this
Foxfire?
Christina:
Yeah.
Drew:
Oh, I know
Foxfire.
Christina:
I was like, “Oh, she’s going to merely hold guessing
Foxfire
until i simply give her
Foxfire.”
Drew:
The key would be that Everyone loves
Foxfire
and I keep willing to contemplate
Foxfire.
Christina:
What i’m saying is, whomst in our midst?
Drew:
Angelina Jolie, gosh.
Christina:
Fine. This 1, one isâ
Drew:
This is basically the final one?
Christina:
This is basically the final one. This is exactly the final one. Church, denial, family connections.
Drew:
Will it be
Miseducation of Cameron Article?
Christina:
It’s not.
Drew:
Is it
But I’m a Cheerleader?
Christina:
Its, yes.
Drew:
Yes. Comedic
Miseducation of Cameron Post.
Christina:
Jokes on laughs. To ensure that had been the game i am contacting, how good really does Drew understand Lesbian films???
Drew:
I enjoy how good we are creating names for the video games.
Christina:
Yeah, is in reality mortifying that I also blogged that in name of a Google Doc, that which was I thinking? That does not even look really good inside my Google Docs.
Drew:
I experienced a lot of fun and I also’m actually grateful that i eventually got to inform most of the listeners about all of the flicks they should see. Therefore’ll place the record for the show records.
Christina:
Absolutely.
Drew:
I would personally point out that record happens to be at a place in which i believe you’ll get anything out-of seeing all 200 flicks. The most important version of the list, there clearly was some things on there that I became not too satisfied with. There continues to be stuff i believe that Really don’t directly but I think that all together, there’s a specific quality control after this latest up-date that I believe very pleased with and that I think they can be all worth witnessing.
Christina: